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writes:i was just wondering if anyone would have any advice,for me.i am living with a great guy now and we love each other,but i dont know how to fully open up my heart to him because i fully opend up my heart in the past ,i got really badly burned by a guy in the past whom i told him i loved him he didnt say anything to that and he cheated on me,i really dont wanna lose the guy im with now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008): Although I am much younger than you and you probably loved your partnrer than I did I am in the exact same place as you my ex ripped out my heart and 3 years later though hes still always around but I am with my new lad and he can tell me anything and i am also not knowing what to do I love him but I am scared to open up to him I think if you just see how it goes then you can see if you can trust him and he is really in love with you then open up to him but make sure you can trust him talk to him I did and my boyfriend understands me now and knows why I am weary of him
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 Open your door slowly and as you get more and more closer, you let him in more and more into your heart.
In love, you give your heart to him and if he does not know how to treasure it, it is very unfortunate and you cannot do anything about it.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 Hi,
well you know there is one surefire way you will lose your current relationship and that is if you keep yourself closed to him like you are now.
So you have two choices, one, continue like you are now and have a life full of insecurity and failed relationships.
Or the second option, take a chance, open up. What have you got to lose? Life is full of people who cheat and are untrustworthy. But it's also full of people who care and are trusting, the way you are going now you will never be able to have a relationship with a caring person as they will never know if they can trust YOU.
Have some faith, take a chance. Otherwise go see a counsellor, it might be an idea to see one now.
Good luck.
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