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writes: I'm having trouble with my boyfriend at the moment. We've been going out for 4 months now and I want to break up with him, because I honestly dont believe I'm worthy of him. I dont usually bring myself down, and I have really high self-esteem, but he doesnt seem happy with our relationship and I believe that if the relationship isnt fun, then theres no point in staying in it. I just want him to be happy, and think that he will find someone who he can have more fun with, but I dont know how to tell him that. Any idea's? Reply to this Question |
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reader, StarNews +, writes (1 January 2006):
 There is a reason for your emptiness, you sense that he doesnt have the same feelings for you as you do for him. You are in such fear of losing him, that instead of risking staying in the relationship, you would rather end it.
I wouldnt take it personal, maybe he is not relationship material. You sound happy and confident, you are willing to let him go to find happiness. Thats a sign of a truly caring person.
He may be unaware of how he is making you feel. I would suggest having a talk with him, let him know how his actions make you feel, and that you are open to letting the relationship go. Maybe this will open his eyes. I still feel there is hope.
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