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writes:Hi I would like your opinion please on these comments my boyfried keeps making to me. To be quite honest I am starting to feel like he has a very low opinion of me at times and I'm wondering if I should tackle him about this.Here are some of the things he has been saying. We were talking the other day regarding other lovers we have had in the past and I said to him how many do you think I've had, he said wait till I go get the phone book, then he proceded to say you've probably had sex with 2 at a time, these comments are hurtful and upsetting to me. Also today I said to him on the phone I'd like a cuddle his reply was Your not desprate are you? so you can wait a while then. I don't feel like I am getting the respect I should from him or am I making too much out of this? We have been together for about 5 years, I have never cheated on him. Reply to this Question
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reader, ctds001  +, writes (6 July 2010):
The comments were wrong, but have a lot of humour!If he is always cracking jokes it may be he's humour is just warped!
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reader, raiders  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 He is disrespecting you, and verbally abusive towards you. It seems like your boyfriend has a negative reply for every comment or question you make. You should tell him that his comments are hurting you, and should stop being so rude. At some point in the relationship you started allowing this treatment and unless you put a stop to it, he will continue. Stand up for yourself and fight your battle and protect yourself because no one else will fight your war, put a stop to.
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reader, eneyesee  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 No, you have every right to be hurt by these comments. Tell your partner some of the things he says are hurtful and ask him to stop. If he continues to say these things, tell him you deserve better and you wont stand for it. Stand up for yourself and show him you're no pushover.. I hope this helps x
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