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I didn't want to be hurt and ran away from love... should go back to him?

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Question - (23 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, samia rose writes:

i've been contemplating whether or not to finish with my 9 month boyfriend for the past few weeks, and basically i finished him yesterday.but we kissed and held each other and both started crying sayng how much we both mean to each other and how we are apart of each other.

i have realised that i am in love with him, and i finished him , i'm so confused why i did this? he says we should get back and i agreed and i am meeting him tomorow or tuesday. I didn't want to be hurt and ran away from love. please help asap! x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008):

OK 1st you need to figure out do you want him ? or not?

if so go back and apologize and just pick up where you left off . If you don't then tell him you love him just not in that way and you still would liek to be apart of his life and him apart of yours

thats all the advice I have for you. I hoped it helped in some way. I hope everything works out for you . Good luck

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A male reader, triplej05 United States +, writes (23 March 2008):

triplej05 agony auntIf you do love him, why did you finish him? Maybe you should just take sometime and weigh the pros and cons of getting back together with him.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (23 March 2008):

thatgothgirl20 agony aunt"I didn't want to be hurt and ran away from love."

I hope that you realize that what you were doing to protect yourself was at the same time hurting yourself?

Too often we cut off the ones that we love.

Congrats on getting back together again.

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