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I check out other girls but love my girlfriend. How do I keep myself in check?

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Question - (22 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2010)
A age 30-35, * writes:

hello everyone i have a question about well these teenage hormones no i have a girlfriend of 1 year and 4 months now since i'm a young man with alot of hornyness which i think is quite common but my sometimes it overwhelms me and i "check out" other girls but i'm completely in love with my gf so when i get a glimpse of these other girls i look but i later feel bad because my gf is already insecure because of a past relationship and i feel like i'm no better than her ex so please what can i do for more self control.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010):

you are 16-17 you have years yet to grow into a mature man. And guess what? You will never stop admiring pretty girls. You wil just get better at doing it, unobtrusively.

Dont stress about it

Totally normal behavior. As long as the girls stay on the fantasy level in your brain

I work with a delightful young Mum. She dresses elegantly. She is never loud, never tarty

She is bright, cheerful and good at her work.

And one notices the men try not to look, but they all do. She is very. Her legs well toned

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (22 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntOk this doesnt make you a bad person, remember you are doing nothing wrong, as the saying goes you can look but you cant touch. What you are doing is completely normal and you shouldnt feel guilty, men who are married and are happy with families still check out girls and think aw shes hot but they dont act on it, because they love there wife and wouldnt dream of cheating on her. So dont panic just try not to do it around your girlfriend if she is insecure. Its ok to look at other girls.

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