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41-50,
*osehanna
writes:i cheated my husband with another guy after having a very mess sex relationship with my husband,i really feel guilty everytime i do it but the problem is that i always say i wont do it again but it keep on happening,i really love this guy but i am married and am trying to get over him but i can't,if i dont see him for more than a week i feel like am missing something belong me or like he still have part of me and i don't get how did this happened,alredy happening for 2 years now.i really dont know where am hedding too,thanxs for reading
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (25 December 2009):
 Affairs are always the symptom of a bigger problem. There is something missing in your marriage. Women don't cheat on men they love and adore. They cheat on men who are not fulfilling them in some way. You need to assess your marriage and be objective. You may love your husband, but you've lost the attraction. Maybe there's simply no challenge anymore. Maybe he's distant or abusive. Only you can answer these questions, but my advise is to figure out what went wrong in the marriage and fix it or move on. Affairs only prevent you from dealing with the real problem and lead to alot of guilt and frustration. If you truly love your husband, go to counseling. If you don't think you love him anymore, then get divorced and be with the one you love but cheating is never the answer.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (25 December 2009):
 Does this other person want to be with you or is he happy to carry on having an affair? You're not really being fair to your husband, if you're that unhappy with him you need to be thinking of leaving him. Sooner or later it will all come out in the wash and you're going to end up quite lonely, so I would make a decision one way or another xx
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