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writes:hello i feel really awfull as i cheated on my boyfreind with a kid i met 6months ago at a local pub, well friday he was in this same pub and forced him self on me so we ended up kissing. and now next time i go to this pub which is my local im scared in case he trys it again and i wont be able to get him off as he is a very strong person who puts all his strength on me and pins my arms back. i dont want to stay out the pub as i have people in there i like to drink with. what can i do? if i told my boyfreind he could sort it out but that wouldnt be a good idea would it? as ill have to tell him i kissed some one else!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have took my feller his 40 to the same pub and still after wards this other lad still keeps trying if i told my man then he would finish with me, and i really dont want to lose him, and it isnt like i cheated on him reason being he forced his self on to me and i couldnt get away if i could of i would of i even kneed him in the balls and he still managed to keep hold on me he kissed me my lips moved abit to breath as i was suffercateing but i didnt kiss him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006): yah u need to tell him that u locked lips with another guy. he deserves to know. there should be no secrets in a relationship.
if choose to go back to the pub and he approaches u, walk away or tell him to back off and that u are in a relationship. try bring ur man to the pub to be seen with him, kiss him there, canoodle him there. and maybe he will get the hint. and besides its more fun when its ur man that pins u down, when its someone other than ur man and its unwanted its called assult. but think about why ur going back, do u like this guy, attracted to him, do u want him to kiss u. do u trust urself? what ever u do, dont cheat on ur man, u will break his heart. but do tell him what happened and work it out.
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reader, Beckah +, writes (9 October 2006):
 Well first of all. honesty is the best policy. If you have a genuine bone in your body, and care about this boy then he has a right to know regardless. I understand this boy is perhaps coming onto you strongly and i'm not suggesting that this is right, but you do have a choice in the matter. If you find it hard to go back into the pub, you've got to question 'Why?'. Is it because you can't trust yourself, or because you feel guilty about what you have done? Either way your first step is to be the honourable woman and tell the truth about what you've done.
Hope i've helped
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