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I can't stop thinking about him, whats wrong with me?

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Question - (6 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 July 2010)
A female Ireland age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I was going out with this guy for a few weeks in January and I really loved him.One day though,he started ignoring me for no reason,so I went on his bebo page.When I looked at his friends,the first person was a girl with an arrow pointing to her that said "I love you".He wouldn't even talk to me after that so I got really angry and told him that I hated him,and we haven't talked since,we don't even stand near eachother like ... And now,5 months on,they're still together,and 'til recently,I thought I was well over him,but now I keep thinking of him for no reason and I feel like I'm going to burst out crying ... What's wrong with me ? A xxx

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (6 July 2010):

Denise32 agony auntIt would be good if you could say you keep thinking of him because you realize what you did by snooping and getting angry was wrong.

BUT I don't think that's the reason. Going out with him for a "few weeks" is no time at all in which to build a relationship, it takes longer than that. He's obviously "taken" and not available to you.

I do hope you can put it behind you and try now to focus on other things - your friends, activities, school studies, etc., maybe another nice boy who is free to go out with you......

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010):

this isnt the best answer but to try to get your mind off of a guy, bring a couple girlfriends to the mall and flirt like crazy to some guys. maybe one will go to your school or maybe not and you guys could start going out. Even though you'll still think of "him" this new guy will help alot.

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