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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupids,This is more sex advice- I hope you don't mind! I am 19 and at uni. I feel I have the opposite problem to most people- I have no a sex drive whatsoever! Forgive the crudeness but I used to get turned on randomly all the time, and now I can't even remember the last time I was in the mood (must be almost a year). I kiss people occasionally on nights out and have been seeing a boy for a couple of months, but I have never taken it further than kissing. I really want to enjoy my sex life (I am not a virgin) but I just can't relax any more and I miss the feeling of being in the mood.Does anyone have any advice on this?Thank you
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (17 May 2015):
 Are you currently on any type of medication on birth control? Because that is known to remove sex drive. You said you used to get turned on, so something changed your sex drive. Figure out what, and you will find the solution. My guess is you're on some medication or birth control, or perhaps even an unhealthy diet. Not enough exercise is also known to reduce the sex drive.
There could be several other reasons, such as health reasons, stress, drama in your life going on that takes all your energy etc. Figure out when your sex drive changed, and if you figure out why, then you will have the answer to how to get it back.
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