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writes:Dear cupids,My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years! We started having sex after a year in a half being together. The problem is I cant last very long during intercourse. Its always been a problem for me but not for my boyfriend. Foreplay is what really gets me going. I love doing it for almost 30 minutes or longer. Once he goes inside me It last probably about 5 or 10 minutes where I need to take breaks in between. I feel breathless and weak where I nearly pass out! My body just gives out! my body just says no more. I feel bad because I know he wants it just as long as foreplay.Hes always taken it slow and gently also in different positions but it always seems the same problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you very much! I see that would make a lot of sense.
I will definately look into that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2013): This is rather simple actually OP, I've seen a few women with the same problem, it's all to do with breathing. You need to start learning to control it during sex as you're hyperventilating or Hypoventilating. I've had a few exs who had issues with breathing, they'd take a sharp inhalation almost every time I thrust in, needless to say this screwed up their breathing and they became light headed and weak. Others then held their breath when they were getting rushes of pleasure.
Google breathing techniques OP and practice them. You see during a work out you have a steady breathing pace, but during sex it gets screwed up for some reason. It takes a bit of practice but you'll get over it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnd the thing is I'm a person who is very physically active! I can work out for many hours but sex is the hardest thing for my body to take.
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