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I can't have an orgasm so I always fake them. Is there something wrong with me?

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Question - (21 May 2017) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 May 2017)
A female Ireland age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I am in a relationship, almost a year now and we have amazing chemistry together. Every time we are having sex I can't seem to orgasm even if I try my best. On my own Its every time, so I fake it to not upset him or to get it over with.What do I do,is there something wrong with me?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (22 May 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntStop faking it. Show him how to get you off. Most women don't orgasm through sex but more so through foreplay. So show him what works for you.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (21 May 2017):

Honeypie agony auntFaking it will NOT fix the issue.

SHOW him HOW you get yourself off - TEACH him HOW to make you orgasm.

You are not sparing his feelings by faking it. You are "letting," him think he is a better lover than he is, so you get "bad sex" because THAT is what you encourage.

If you can have SEX with this guy you can TELL him what you ENJOY and what you would LIKE for him to do to you, where he should touch you and how. SO you BOTH can get pleasure.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (21 May 2017):

N91 agony auntIs the sex good?

Does he perform foreplay? Or just dive into sex?

Have you told him what you enjoy or given him any direction?

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