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I can't deal with his past. Pleas help!!

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Question - (20 July 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2006)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

I am thinking of splitting up with my boyfriend of a year because I can't get over the fact that he's slept with so many people before me, and one while we were seeing each other (but before we were an item). However, I really can't bring myself to do it! I had my first boyfriend at 17 and left him for my current boyfriend so now I can't bear the thought of being alone. I haven't been without a boyfriend in nearly 3 years! I know this is so pathetic, I've even been seeing a cousellor about my problems.

How has it come to this? I used to be so confident and charismatic, now I'm so dependent on others, I don't even know who I am anymore. He's a lovely man but because of his past, I don't know whether I love him or not and I know the best thing to do is walk away and 'find myself'. I have a great family, and some friends but not as many as I used to and they're not always there like a boyfriend is.

Thanks.

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A male reader, Tray-c +, writes (20 July 2006):

Tray-c agony auntWell everyone does have a past so you can't judge him off that, but I feel that there are larger issues than just his past here. It could be good for you to start out fresh and find your own two feet again, I suggest that you go on a "break" from this man and go out and enjoy yourself and hook up with your friends again I'm sure they would be delighted to see a much more brighter and vibrant you!!

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