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I can't cum with a condom on! Heeeelp!

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Question - (7 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2010)
A male Macedonia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I can't cum with a condom on! i'm and 18 year old male and can't cum even after one hour of shagging... What could be the reason of this, illness, masturbation, condoms..? Will ultra thin condoms help me cum faster? Hit me with all you got!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010):

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lube in or out of the condom?and definitively I should quit wanking...thanks I hope it'll work

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2010):

Easy, start jacking off with a condom on! It's a learned behavior, and you'll get the hang of it. Use some lube and enjoy... she will once you've mastered it.

BUT! Take it slow and learn to last... don't train your dick to shoot off in a few seconds (this can happen if you use a super tight grip).

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A male reader, Latino201 United States +, writes (7 November 2010):

I've had the same problem. Yes, try ultrathin condoms durex makes a good thin and sturdy one. Also, if you do a "jackrabbit" this might also be the cause.. which is jumping on our partner without much foreplay and plowing away. Instead, take your time, a lot of foreplay, some oral, lap dance, visual stimulation (have her do different positions while you watch and masturbate for a bit.. really does the trick. If none if this works, they you are masturbating waaayyyy too much dude, might want to give the porn a rest!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (7 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony aunthi well believe me your problem is not all that rare it happens a lot of guys because it reduces sensitivity therefore it makes it harder to reach orgasm. if you are with a long term partner maybe you could both get checked for sti's and she could go on birth control but if this is not the case then yes thinner condoms are far better to use or maybe you could always get the girl to finish you off orally or with her hand. But definetly try the ultra thin ones they should help a lot.

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