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I can't climax in any position - any suggestions?

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Question - (11 January 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2007)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

In any position whatsoever i cant ever reach a climax, can someone give me some advise

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A female reader, delightfullynaughty +, writes (13 January 2007):

For you to orgasm you need to be able to relax and feel at ease with the other person. You should only have sex with someone you're truly in love with and have a committed relationship. Having sex after just a few dates or even months is not enough time to reach that level of trust with the other person.

If you're going to be having sex then you should take some time to get to know yourself. Find out what works for you by masturbating and familiarizing yourself with your body. Do you like having your breasts played with? Do you like them caressed? Lightly pinched? Your clit? Do you get wet easily? Does it take time?

Once you find out these things share them with your partner. Tell him/her what feels good. Communication is the key. If you can't tell him what works then you'll never be able to get that orgasm you're looking for.

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A male reader, cussinggus +, writes (12 January 2007):

cussinggus agony auntWhat the hell are you doing...SAVE yourself for a point in your life that intimate contact with someone you care about will mean more than a physical sensation. Your failure to achieve an orgasm is most likely biological, ergo, you're too young to be doing this. Seriuosly, get in volved with school activities, join the YMCA, or find a role model that values you as a person/human before irrepairable damage is done

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