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writes:I broke up with a lovely man who treated me well, but didn't have much in common with me. It was a hard decision but I felt I really needed more of an emotional connection. I started seeing another man and we became heavily involved. I am absolutely crazy about him but he is difficult to love. Very hot tempered, controlling, and bossy. I've tried to be tolerant but I worry that over time our fights will wear out the romance. The former man I broke up with is still very much interested in a relationship with me; he's stable and kind but I know I'll be bored. I just don't know what to do. I'm very torn between what my head tells me (choose the nice man) and what my heart wants (the emotional man) so I no longer know what to do and I am tired to dating and looking for Mr. Right because I don't believe he exists.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 February 2010):
The nice guy isn't right because you think he's boring. And the nasty guy isn't right because you'll get hurt. So neither man is right for you, and you would do better to keep looking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): Don't go for the 'nice' man, he deserves someone who doesn't think he is boring.
I also do not think the 'emotional' man is right for you either. Why would you want to be with someone who is controlling, has a hot temper and bossy?
If you are tried of dating take a break for it for a while.
Don't give up you will someone who is right for you.
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