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I can't be with him, how to forget him?

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Question - (6 December 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 December 2016)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey, i hope you can help me get through this

i have this one guy, my senior that i closed with, that i liked since back there

but it seems that it is one sided

so i tried my best to keep distance and find someone else without realizing that i'm not move on yet

so i have a boyfriend now, very loyal and supportive to me, as usual, all human being got their flaws

but when we are on fight

i will start to remember my senior

when he about to graduate recently, i text him to at least say byebye for his leaving

and he confessed to me

he confessed that he got feeling back there

but then, he realized that he's a playboy type

before he met me, he got a lot of girlfriend

afraid of that, he make himself distance from me

that's explained why i thought it was one sided previously

what should i do?

i can't forget him, but he is a playboy

he might just want to have sex with me

i love my boyfriend too, it just sometime the feeling came to me

and it hurt me so much to live in this guilty

i can't reveal this to anyone

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2016):

Your playboy fancy man is feeling a little guilty because all he wants is sex and money.

Probably he thinks you might do a porn video for old times sake and also so that he has some hold over you for that your new boyfriend will drop you.

Try to grow up and forget your playboy.Try to remember he says the same things to all the girls he has ever met because he doesnt want a relationship that goes further than cooking and shagging.

Remember that he has sex with all of them at the same time when he shuts his eyes because he has made you all interchangeable in his mind!

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A female reader, Ioanna Aigidou Germany +, writes (7 December 2016):

You remind me of myself. Take your distance. Please,please,please. Do not get involved into anything with a fuckboy.(except for friendship, or if you just want to spend your time and have fun). It is gonna harm you so bad. Specially when you have feelings for him.

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