A
female
age
18-21,
anonymous
writes:I've had a couple of partners [[men]], and I can not orgasm during sex. Nor during oral, or foreplay.None of the men, can make me finish!I do masturbate, and everytime i "finger" myself, i don't feel as good. I've always [[since i first started masturbating when i was younger]] i always rub my clit, and it gets me to a orgasm.I've tried exploring the inside of my vagina, trying to find a Gspot- but i honestly don't think i have one!My current boyfriend gives me oral alot, and it feels good, but...its like- he constantly changes what hes doing, b/c he gets tired. Like, he'll lick me for 4minutes and then finger me 1 minute, and then lick other parts of my vagina that don't really feel all that great and it will repeat itself. I've told him multiple times what i like, and he should concentrate on that- but...then he gets tired of doing the same motion, so he never follows through.When hes fingering me...i don't feel anything...and usually i just rub my clit while hes fingering me, and that gets me off.during sex- hes got me in SOO many crazy positions, most of the time i can't even rub my clit...and for some ODD reason...i can't rub my clit as good while hes on top or when i'm on top..so i NEVER finish!Everytime he rubs my clit..it just...doesn't seem right.I've moved his hand in the right place, and told him what i usually do, but it just doesn't get me off!What should i do?i'm tired of faking orgasms, and i'm tired of correcting my partners.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (5 January 2009):
 I would suggest that you try doing it " Doggy style" if you haven't already. You will be able to play with yourself whilst having sex.
I think you should go to a sex shop and look for items that vibrate and stimulate the clitoris. I think you should go on your own to discover the kind of things you feel would help rather than being influenced by your boyfriend.
As for faking the orgasms, I suggest you don't continue with this because it makes you concentrate on that rather than enjoying the feeling.
Have fun xxx
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male
reader, Griffo  +, writes (5 January 2009):
 To the below anonymous poster yeah she'll do that then desensitize herself for the rest of her life!! Don't do it girl you will regret it!!!
To cut a long story short Just tell your B/f to do it!!!!!!! Set a challenge - if they don't get you off first then you wont get them off. make sure your male partner has to get you to orgasm first as their challenge and if they have weak tongues then tell them to train it!!! googles always a good tool for them to do their research.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): stop all sex. wait a week then put some ky warming liquid inside your vagina using your new extra large cock from a adult store.the heat will build up to point where you will scream. you will have an orgasm
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male
reader, MichaelS2 +, writes (5 January 2009):
 It common that a male teen won't bring his partner to orgasm!Don't feel that something is wrong its common.
You shouldn't fake the Orgasm.Just sit down with your boyfriend or partner and let him know that you are having trouble reaching climax.
Show him how to help bring you to climax and teach him the things that pleasure you most.
Many male teens fail to manage both their own and their partners pleasure.A male teen tends to end up pleasuring himself.
In my Psychology class the teacher said that most women don't experience a real orgasm through intercourse until they are older or are dating an older man.
I know it's frustrating but it's common.You really should sit down and have a talk with your boyfriend and tell him how to please you best and so on.
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