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I broke up with the guy I had for the guy I wanted but he dosen't want me.

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Question - (31 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *hoebemarie writes:

hi, i am phoebe and i am 17 years old. i was recently in a horrible love triangle and i haven't recovered yet. my friend set me up with this guy and he absolutely fell head-over-heals for me. but i didn't like him back. he was too sexual when he talked to me. but i absolutely love this other guy that i was texting from myyearbook.com. but he wasn't interested at all. and i had to break it off with the guy my friend suggested and now i am alone again. i have had way too many bad relationships before this. i'm beginning to lose faith. and now i am so depressed because the guy i texted don't like me and i broke upo with that other guy in a totally wrong way wich made me feel way worse about myself. how do you recover from this?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009):

take one day at a time and keep your head high. you will eventually look back and say what the hell i was thinking of. what work for me which probably sound stupid is write a letter to him(do not give it to him!) or diary saying how you feel and how you going to let go and you will.

oh you did a right thing to break up with the other lad cause it not fair on you or him

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A male reader, Stephen Stewart Nixon United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2009):

Stephen Stewart Nixon agony auntA relationship is a nice thing to have with the right person but you may have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find that person. Relax and enjoy the process and do not let the fickle nature of teenage boys influence your self esteem. You will be OK so long as you don't take the whole thing to seriously. Laugh and have fun you are in the prime of your life.

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A male reader, IamSoConfused United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2009):

Get a new hobby or something similar to take your mind of things. You might even make some new friends or even find someone even better.

Don't lose hope, it is never too late to find love especially if you are 17 years old. You have your whole life ahead of you to find someone.

You don't really need a relationship at your age anyway and should concentrate on school or whatever (easier said that done I admit). Don't worry, that special person will come around and you will feel better about your current situation with time and eventually you will look back on it and laugh.

Good luck and don't worry so much!

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