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writes:I broke it off with my b/f of 3 years a week ago. I just wasnt happy anymore and felt we had drifted apart. I thought it was the right thing. We are still very good friends bt i now feel really lonely. i miss him and wonder whether i shouldve given it another try n tried to make things work..He was my first proper boyfriend. it feels weird without him. I miss him.Is this normal? should i get back together with him? what do i do????
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (1 February 2008):
 Call him and set up a date. If you need to apologize, do it and then move on. Rebuild your relationship and carry on where you have left. If you are wrong eat some humble pie. People can fall out and fall in again. If you think he is worth it, give your relationship another chance. It is not the matter of who is right or wrong. We all make mistakes.
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reader, baby duck  + ♥, writes (1 February 2008):
 It is completely normal.
Even people that have left abusive relationships and know that it was the best thing, feel that a part of them is missing when the relationship is over. It's like the phantom limb that amputees feel.
You feel like a part of you is missing because a part of you is. That does not mean that you should go back to the relationship.
Stay alone for awhile. Get to know yourself alone, as opposed to part of a couple. After you've learned a few things about yourself, you will be a better partner in your next relationship.
It's all about growth. That is the purpose of life ... so be open to it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): if your reasons were valid, and for that you need some introspection, then no, by no means get back with him.
and just for the record, unless you are one of those super happy-go-lucky people, small part of you is never, or 'till you are really happy with someone, gonna get over him. small part, thats all. now, if thats what you decided, embrace the world and new challenges and new people, you need some growing to do.
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