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anonymous
writes:Last night when I went to bed I said night to my boyfriend in an IM, I brushed my teeth before saying love you and what not and while I was gone he said that I didn't love him any more, and logged off. Today, he said he was just joking around and was just tired. I was really upset about this, and was up all night with anxiety and guilt. I thought he really thought I didn't love him, and wanted to leave me. Am I being too sensitive, or should he say sorry for doing that? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): if that was my bf i would think he should say sorry!whether your being too sensitive depends on your situation like have you recently had a fight or anything? and do you usually joke around? and how long have you been together? and whats happened? and stuffbut if you were up all night worrying then id say you should let him know this and he should say sorry!:)
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (3 December 2008):
 Hi dear,
NO you are not being too sensative at all!. what he siad was not funny because he kept you worrying all night.
He should apologise and never do it agian if he really loves you. Take care!
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reader, charlystarly +, writes (3 December 2008):
 I think that it was out of order to say that without adding something to signify it was just a joke! However, since he said he was joking I think you should let it go! I think to an extent you were being to sensitive but it isn't a nice thing to say to someone! Especially to someone who does actually love him! So yes and no, you weren't and were being to sensitive lol. Basically just let it go just tell him not to say that again and ask if he actually thought that! If he hesitates then it isn't a good sign and you might want to think about your relationship and where it's going wrong...
Good Luck and I hope this helpes! x
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reader, Ma Ma Sue +, writes (3 December 2008):
You are been too sensitive. Apart from last night has he done or said anthing that mind you think he wanted to leave. If not drop it and move on . If there has been other occasions then you need to tell him what he is doing wrong, how it makes you feel, if he really means and if he doesnt then tell him to stop.
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