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I asked my husband's permission to kiss another woman. Should I continue my quest to be with a woman if this fails?

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Question - (7 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am a married woman aged 31yrs, I have a 2yr old son, i have told my husband that there is a girl at my gym that I want to kiss so much, she is 22yrs and gay,she was hurt by a married woman before at the gym, I dont want to lose our friendship, but I cant get her out of my head,he is very supportive which surprised me, he has said i need to experience being with a women to get it out my system, he's very laid back, and no he doesn't want to join in,if it doesn't happen with this girl should i continue my quest to be with a woman ?

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (8 November 2007):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

I would experiment outside of this girl in the gym. She obviously wants a relationship - which is the one thing you cannot provide. So you would merely be repeating the experience she had with her last lover - probably bi-curious who tested the waters and then went back to home turf.

If your husband's o.k. with it there are plenty of other opportunities available, swingers clubs and the like. You could always meet another bi-curious married lady in these places.

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A female reader, Minelisse Puerto Rico +, writes (7 November 2007):

Minelisse agony auntI cannot give you any advise at it is very delicate thing dealing with ones sexuality and sexual orientation. However, I once was questioning my own sexuality and decided to be with a woman. She and I remain friends but I definitely discovered that I was not sexually attracted to females as I was to men.

You'll find a way to complete your quest!

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