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writes:Theres this girl i told i like her last term at uni. She said was wanted time to think but wanted to hang out still. We never did hang out, although i kept asking to.Its now the hols, and just wandering how best to approach things when i see her again in a couple weeks. I think i probably was too insistent asking to hang out, so should i apologize for this considering she asked for time to think and say I'd still like to hang out if she does and tell her to come to me if she wants to? or should i just not mention anything at all and just see what happens? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks.
ok il back off. but the thing is, do i say sorry for being a bit insistent or just let things be and hope things will come around?
also what would you say about me going to see her but keeping it just friends, would she read that as still keeping on with her?
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reader, Alexis0117  +, writes (4 April 2007):
I think it is best to let her approach you. She may be uncomfertable with the idea of hanging out with you, which can be caused by many reasons.She could be hurting over a past relationship, or is just not ready for a new one, she could be just wanting to be with you as a friend, or she is just really busy. But whatever the case, let her take the lead. Clearly, she has done a good job dodging and it is time she faced the situation. I had a guy once who repetedly asked me to hang out with him and it drove me crazy and away, so just back off a little bit and don;t crowd her, if she is interested she will come around.
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