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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi Guys,I met a girl ( 26 ) online and we emailed and chatted on the phone for 4 weeks before meeting up.The 1 st date was fantastic, market date then extended to a game of pool where she bet a kiss on the result of one game and me cooking her dinner on the other. I went home with a great feeling from this date. The second date was last weekend I cooked dinner, we played board games and talked until the early hours of the morning. We had sex and nothing was awkward in the morning, I again really enjoyed spending time with this girl and ensured I texted her so later that evening I could feel we clicked in many ways the sign of no awkwardness is massive for me. We arranged to go out this weekend to watch a comedy show, she rang me on the Wednesday to say she couldn’t make it as she had forgotten about previous plans for her brothers birthday and they already had a ticket to a sporting event on the Saturday night.. In the time I was thinking what I had on the following weekend on the phone ( I work some weekends ) She counter offered and said if I wasn’t doing anything we could meet after the football match but I would have to drive her to the train the next day. I said great, sure I will probably be about town anyway and maybe we can watch a movie at mine ( she lives some distance from the city ). I was then thinking cook a nice breakfast and time depending maybe take her out for lunch before dropping her at the train.My question is… am I possibly ruining my chances here as the 3 rd date was going to be a bit of an evening out comedy show sort of thing where I could add to the romance a little more. However for some reason ( maybe because I truly like this woman ) I am worried that this re-organized date could leave a dud memory for her ? seems a bit boring..The other side is I feel if she didn’t want too she would never of offered in the first place and would of since cancelled so maybe I’m being a bit silly about the whole thing especially considering she has stayed sex has been done and I should just be myself and realize that maybe just spending time with me is perfectly fine. I guess I see the possibility down the track of a relationship with this girl and don’t want to ruin it with a rubbish date.. and ruin the possibility of a 4 th ..Thoughts ?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (13 July 2012):
 what you do is not as important as just doing it.
relax and enjoy.
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (13 July 2012):
 You're worrying about nothing. You're spending time with each other, and that's what really matters.
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reader, Eyespy17 +, writes (13 July 2012):
When I really like a guy - it doesn't matter what we do on a 3rd date. I'm going to get to know him more.
And if she offered it - I say it's fine. Relax and enjoy!
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