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41-50,
*azsad
writes:I had a girlfriend many years ago and about 2 years ago i found her on facebook and she added me, but she not remember me, Now here is the twist: my mum goes shopping where she works on the tills and every time she asks how i am. I am not sure if I write her a letter? I have been thinking about her a lot so any advice be much appreciated
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reader, Mark1978 +, writes (13 July 2014):
 Hello,
The important thing to remember is that people change a lot over the years. If she was your GF many years ago then the chances are she is likely to be a very different person now she is older and in a completely different situation. Obviously she could be married and or have kids.
Writing to her would be a bad idea as A: she didn't remember you on facebook and would probably find a letter a bit weird, and B: she may have a partner who wouldn't be happy if he saw the letter.
The fact this girl asks your mom about you is probably out of politeness. I recently saw a former friends mom and dad and I asked how there lad was, whom I was friends with at school, but would have no interest in actually being friends with the guy anymore.
The best thing would be to go shopping and get served by this girl on he till. If she recognises you then chat to her and try and ascertain if there is any interest. If not leave it at that.
Mark
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