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writes: I am told I am pretty,charming,got a goreous smile yet can't seem to find love or friendship,what's wrong with me ? Why am I so unwanted ? It hurts.Can any one help me ? Thanks ! Reply to this Question
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reader, Ayan Ganguly  +, writes (13 June 2012):
 Which book taught you that in order to fall in love you got to be pretty and charming or have a gorgeous smile...my dear these are all relative term,superficial if i can call so..these things don't gurantee true love..just hold on time will gift you your special person...the later it comes the better it is mind you...till then keep smiling
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2012): Plenty of women are pretty,charming with a gorgeous smile,just look around you in the street.
What are you like in an emergency? Do you love your parents? Are you a flake with no depth? Are you high maintenance? Are you approachable? Do you have a full life?
Do you like you, exude confidence,laugh at yourself?
Where do you go or how do you meet men?
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reader, pm17674  +, writes (13 June 2012):
i am still going through this "questioning" phase" myself. I am 28 and its beginning to really suck.. to say the least. But Sageoldguy 1465 said it best "you are going to meet a TERRIFIC guy... and it's taken the Good Lord a little longer to arrange for that....". BUT IT WILL HAPPEN!! so keep hoping and trusting that it will happen... and it will!!
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (13 June 2012):
 There is nothing wrong with you, but perhaps you are so pretty and charming that men are intimidated by you? Reach out to others or join a group of some sort. Take a class that is fun and you will surely meet some new people. There is so much out there to do from gardening, to sports, to art, cooking, etc.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (13 June 2012):
 I'd guess there's not a darn thing "wrong" with you.... simply, in the randomness of compatible people encountering one-another in life, you haven't had that encounter yet.... Be patient... and don't fall in to that trap of believing that YOU are responsible for this...
P.S. Perhaps, it has taken you a little longer than you might like, BECAUSE you are going to meet a TERRIFIC guy... and it's taken the Good Lord a little longer to arrange for that....
Chin up!!!!.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2012): Yes, but how do you feel about YOURSELF? You say you are told you are pretty, charming and have a gorgeous smile. But do you believe that yourself? This is what counts!It is your attitude about youself that projects towards other people. If you are confident in yourself it radiates outward and draws people to you. Are you introverted and shy? Do you engage people in conversation and smile at people often? Are you open and welcoming? Or do you close yourself off to others?When you are confident in yourself, people will be drawn towards you. If you have insecurities, then they will be projected to others and they will not be drawn to you so easily.Try not to care too much about any of it. Be relaxed and free. People will notice when you are too uptight or negative. Be friendly to people and take time to enjoy activities you like to do, join groups and organizations where people will share similar interests. Put yourself out there.Do things for yourself to boost your confidence. Work out. Get a new hairstyle. Buy some new clothes. Go out with friends. These will all help to pick you up.Most of all, make sure you have a great sense of humour. Laugh! People are drawn to those who can laugh and enjoy themselves. Life is too short to always be serious and worry about things. Take life as it comes. Make the best out of what you have and what will come will fall into place.But the key is how you feel about yourself because this is how others will see you.Hope this helps you. Good luck. It is all about attitude and confidence! :-)
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