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I am thinking of breaking up with my BF so I can chase after my rock star crush! Is this crazy?

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Question - (6 July 2011) 7 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2011)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am inlove with Bret Michaels and I honestly think we are ment to be together. He is a rock star and I feel like I should be with him. I am engaged to my fiance Elvin and i love him but love bret michaels more....should I tel my fiance? should I try to be with Bret?I know this sounds insaine but this is how i feel

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A female reader, r_a_w_r1645 United States +, writes (11 July 2011):

r_a_w_r1645 agony auntno thats a bad idea. sorry, but chances are he'd say no. and your fiance wouldnt like it very much. youd be all over brett and your fiance would be pissed. you shouldnt even be with your fiance if your thinking about leaving him for a rockstar.... i feel bad for him. again no offence.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2011):

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im going to see him in concert next saturday....IF i get to meet him somehow should I ask if he would want to hang out with me and my fiance for a bit after the show?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2011):

Bret Micheals proposed to his parter of nearly twenty years last year. Not to mention the fact that she is the mother to his two daughters...

I doubt very much that he will go for you and leave his family. I suggest you stick to your current partner.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2011):

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yeah I'm 18 lol

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A female reader, r_a_w_r1645 United States +, writes (7 July 2011):

r_a_w_r1645 agony auntI know its how you feel, but to be honest it wont be worth it. Once you try and fail, you'll realize how stupid you were and your fiance wont want you back anymore and you'll lose everything. Anyways, why would you want Brett Michaels? He's got a load of STD's. ---no offence

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A male reader, idoneitagain Australia +, writes (7 July 2011):

I am assuming you don't actually know Bret Michaels personally.

In that case, you don't love Bret Michaels, you love the idea of Bret Michaels, or the version of Bret Michaels that is portrayed through the media, but those are different from the actual person that Bret Michaels is. You have no idea what it is like to be in Bret Michael's company, to have a conversation, to go to the movies, cook dinner, or have to deal with problems.

The fact that you thinking of telling your fiance you aren't sure if you should be with him or try be with Bret is possibly an indication that you aren't getting what you truly want out of your relationship. There is a good chance that all of the things you aren't getting in your relationhip, you are seeing in Bret. How important are those things to you, and can your fiance fulfil those things in the relationship. These are things you should talk to your fiance about, they aren't easy conversations to have, but you will probably want to have them before you are married.

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A female reader, GeeGee255 United States +, writes (7 July 2011):

GeeGee255 agony auntHoney it is a nice fantasy, but I think you are wasting your time. I know Brett and he hasn't been into teenage girls for quite a few years.

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