I am the mother of five young girls and just found my boyfriend looking at teen girl porn

A female age 51-59, *ikki46 writes:

My boyfriend is looking teen porn almost every day. He promised me a couple months ago to never do it again when I found stuff that looked WAY too young and wrong. I about had a break down because I have 5 girls almost ready to be teenagers. How is that going to work? I am TRYING to be rational about this. Porn never bothered me, but this teen porn (no its NOT just tounger looking 18yr olds, sorry this stuff isnt appropriate!) He swears it means nothing. He cried and begged and said I have it all wrong. That hes NOT that way. How are you not thst way when thats your porn of choice? His porn used to be transgender, shamale. It NEVER bothered me. THIS has me tripping. I feel I have to break up with the love of my life over this. We have been together one year. I feel its not safe for the girls in our lives. I really need to hear what others think. I am much older than him. I have a horrid body, he SWEARS he loves me and is attracted to me, he FULLY acts like it to. He touches me and desires me and never seems to have Any problems with how I look. HE SAYS he will die without me and wants to be together forever. I think this is ridic and will never happen but I do think we could be happy for a while. Our sex life is amazing. He is very fit and attractive. He is kind, sweet, giving. He makes money and gives me every dime. I HATE that this is happening. I dont know what to do! I also hate that his preference is obviously tiny teens and I am the oposite of that! He can go get a tiny 18yr old any time he wants. They flock to him everywhere we go, he has to beat them away with a stick. He never disrespects me in public. He treats me like he is the luckiest man alive to have me. We are never apart except when he is at work. I pick him up and drop him off. I dont think he has cheated. But.. Being older ai am already scarwd od being left for something younger and more fun all the time. Those images make me want to vomit and I am VERY open sexually. We are actually both pansexual. I didnt think any sexual thing could bother me until this TEEN STUFF. I need any kind of insight about what to do. I care about those 5 girls more than anything. I cant have him looking at them ina few years!! That makes me just gag.. thank you.

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