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writes: hi there, im 17 and terrified of giving a guy a blow job because i dont have a clue what im doing, the man im with just now luckily enjoys pleasuring me but i want to give him something in return but am too scared. i get the courage to do it then when i come to doing it i freeze cos i don't want it to go wrong. what if my teeth get in the way? please help. xx
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (31 August 2006):
 i know its a very late reply, but hopefully i ent that late. as long as you open your mouth the width of what his penise is and move them teeth and suck your be fine. considering your doind this for your boyfriend try asking him to guide you through it instead that way you cant go wrong because his telling you exactly how to do it.
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reader, seenitdoneit +, writes (17 August 2006):
Blow job comes from 'below job' which is what Victorian prostitutes called oral sex. There is no blowing, or sucking, it is like a hand job but you use your mouth instead of your hands. Try flicking the stringy bit at the back of the penis with your tongue - some guys love it and others don't. Curl your lips around your teeth if you are worried about biting him. He'll be so glad that you are giving it a go that he will like whatever you do and if he doesn't let you know what he likes then he doesn't deserve to enjoy it.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (17 August 2006):
 I had your problem and my last boyfriend had to wait 6 months until I did anything to him, even give him a hand job! I was just so scared I would do it wrong and I would be embaressed.
However, one night I had a couple of drinks (don't get leathered!) and I got the courage to do it. He was a great guy so he would never have laughed at me or anything, that was just what I thought in my head. Make sure you know your man enough to trust him. Big things like doing this to someone are so much easier if you are comfortable with the guy.
Just relax. First, lick his penis before putting it all the way in your mouth. Be sure to be gentle at first and get more vigorous as it goes on. Once your lips are around it, move slowly up and down, making your tongue do some of the work inside too! When you think he's had enough of this, put your hand at the base of the penis and act like you are giving him a hand job. Keep your mouth on the top of the penis and continue with the movements you have been doing. Again, start slow and get faster. When your hand is doing some of the work, this takes the pressure off your mouth!
If you want it to last, be careful to slow down when he looks like he's getting a bit too excited! Also, massaging his balls can be very pleasurable for him and can help him come.
Don't do anything you don't want to. I understand you want to pleasure you man the way he does you, but you don't have to do this, or anything, until you are ready.
I hope this has helped and good luck, keep in touch and let me know how it goes!!!
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