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writes:my parents have always argued but just recently they have got worse. I reali think it wud b betta for all of us if they spilt up. they argue violenlty up to 4 times a week. its very hard to write down in words how terrified and scaryed i am as a 15 year old girl. i need your help please someone help me there arguements are ruining my life
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reader, Chad039 +, writes (25 May 2007):
 I have had the same problem when i was growing up at that age. i am now 18 and the've broke up and both leave seperate lives now. Have you tried talking to your mother about it all. Tell her that you feel trapped and scared and that you want them to sort it out as its making you unhappy. Or sit them both down say it's on my mind all the time and that you worry about what's going to happen.chad
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reader, sleepyhollow  +, writes (25 May 2007):
Depending on what they're arguing about, breaking up may or may not be the right thing.
What you need to do, if you wish to take on the role of the mature peacekeeper in your family, is to convince them both to attend marriage counseling, in which you'll be included since this affects you too.
Since you're 15, that means you're still in school. The first step may be to go to the school's counselor to talk.
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