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I am sad and he is happy!

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Question - (21 December 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 December 2013)
A female South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Am in a distance relationship and its been tough he has beat me up insulted me now he's far from me.when am with him I feel good and in my heart I love him so much he doesn't answer me on time when I send him an message and he just posts pictures of him looking good and happy. Then what must I do now cos am feeling sad and I miss him so much?

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A female reader, Dorothy Dix Australia +, writes (22 December 2013):

Hi there. Even if you do really like him, it doesn't excuse his abuse of you - either verbal or physical.

That is just NOT on, at all.

You would be better off with someone in your own town, who you can actually see whenever you want to.

Start going out with your friends, and having some fun on your own.

You don't need that abuse in your life.

You deserve much better.

Don't torment yourself by visiting his Facebook and then you won't feel so unhappy.

You need to get him right out of your life.

Don't go sending him any more text messages or messages online, just don't go there at all.

In fact, don't go on Facebook at all, either.

It is better to be alone and truly happy, than to be with someone - just for the sake of not being alone.

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A female reader, MyDaysOnceRevolvedAroundYou United Kingdom +, writes (21 December 2013):

MyDaysOnceRevolvedAroundYou agony auntIts clear you have feelings for this man, but he really doesn't deserve it. Violence and abuse of any kind in a relationship is NEVER okay and you really can do so much better than that. You should stop looking at his page and get rid of him online so you don't have to see it and you can move on with your life without him and be happy. You will meet someone else, your only young - someone who really respects you.

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