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writes:Before I had the baby(6 months ago) I gained about 100 lbs.When we first met I was a real hottie every were I went - heads turned. Now I dont feel attractive like I was, and my husband sure aint helping me feel sexy. hes not comming on to me for sex. He looks at other women the way men use to look at me.
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (10 August 2008):
 It is normal to gain weigth when you are having a baby. Everyone does. You will loose it slowly. Have a little patience hon, along with some effort. But in that effort, if you are breast feeding, don't forget to eat the right things so that your baby gets the nutrients that is needed. Remember your eatting habits before you got pregnant? Remember the size of portions? Head towards that way. You will be a hottie again in no time! (wink)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): I'M so sorry that your husband is being a dill weed. Sometimes men are just jerks. I think the best thing you can do is work on yourself, for yourself, and not your jerk of a husband. All women gain some waight from giving birth. Your husband might have too hgh of expectations, for what you are suppose to look like. Please try talking t him. If he isn't responsive, when you talk to him, then maybe you should talk to a professional (Medical or leagal.) This dosen't seem to be about you, but your husband. Keep your head up, and your eyes forward. You gave birth to a PERFECT child....Your husband should be proud....and so should you my Dear!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): You two should go to a marriage counselor because there seem to be some serious issues.Then you need to go to your doctor or a psychiatrist to talk about your feelings and let everything out and get treatment for your depression.First,talk to your husband.Listen to him and tell him how you feel and ask him what makes him act the way he does.Still go to marriage counseling and a psychiatrist.I hope Ihelped and wish you the best.x
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reader, apirate77 +, writes (10 August 2008):
 the way you feel is what is missing ,if you feel like a million pepole will want to help spend it.
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