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writes:Guys! Help me please! My parents are soo mardy, they treat me like im 5 . So okay I love ice skating with my friends but there all going on friday nights for the foam parties and im not allowed, i told my parents ill get a life there and back but still no! I really want to go to one as they look amazing! How can i persuade my parents to let me go also i want a later bed time currently i stand at 9:30 and its pathetic, im not late for school ever! So thanks guys and one last thing i want to strech my ears but im not allowed to do that either! So if any off you have any suggestions on how to resolve any of these situation please let me know and thanks in advanced! ;D Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionguys thanks for the answers but foam parties are kind a rave but not what you guys are thinking of, its ice skating but they put like bath foam on the ice with a light show and music so it is safe and staff are on the ice too!Streched ears are fine, i dont want loads of tattoos but i really want streched ears only talking 8 gauge and facial pircings dont really bothers my interests but my parents are like soo mardy . I can accecpt the foam is in the city center so there will be drunks and stuff about but if im being picked up and dropped off then whats the problem as drunk people aint' allowed in the arena, thanks anyways
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): Maybe you could talk to your parents, I mean if a group of friends are going maybe they could drive you all together and pick you up so they know you will arrive and come home alive. I dont know what a foam party is but the other persom makes it sound like its a rave in which case they are actually some what dangerous and peer presure is very serious.The ear stretching isnt that big of a deal, I stretched mine at your age, my mum wasnt very pleased with the idea, but as long as you dont go past double zero the holes will close back up. Maybe talk to your parents about that. If your a good kid, maybe remind them that you do your school work and such and your appearance isnt going to change that. You do have to remember though they only want whats best for you, they dont try to destroy your life on purpose. And eventually you will be able to make these choice for yourself when your older.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): You're too young for all of the above! Foam parties??? At 13 to 15 NO WAY! Stretched ears... oh sure, deform yourself permanently before you even have a clue about life (you have to find a job one day!... No visible tats, no major facial piercings... I hired a young girl years ago that had multiple tats on her hands and lower arms. It was a shit job, but the best she could get until she raised several thousands to get them taken off... STUPID thing she did at a young age, and then found out NO ONE would give her a job (but me for about $5/hr.... try living on that when rent is $600/month).
You need to let it go, and give yourself a few years to figure life out...
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