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writes:have a relationship question, i am in a relationship with someone, but in love with someone else, i dont want to hurt either people, so i stay in the relationship and this person is very clingy and reliant on me, i feel resentment and frustration but dont want to hurt her but i still love another , what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2011): You only get one shot at life - follow your heart so you have no regrets. It sounds like she needs this just as much, because you should never be emotionally reliant on anyone. this might do her good in the long run. live your life!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (26 August 2011):
 Do her a favor and end your relationship. She'll recover. Do it like removing a band aid, and be firm, don't leave her hanging to any false hopes. You are only postponing the inevitable. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2011): It is not clear if the other person is in love with you, however it is most likley unfair to remain in your existing relationship if you dont love that person. If however you are married then possibly the advice might be different, as in try and avoid the person you are in love with if possible and try and rebuild your marriage.
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