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writes: i m 17+.my boyfriend and i dont really have sex as we are not at the same country.or this is not the time to do so.but still when we chat in the net,he asks me what will i do to make him more romantic and to love him more.both of us starts from head to toe to say about every part of our body but when he ask me what i will do after he strips off my blouse and....but i dont know how to answer him.but i know he wants more to feel.what can i do?
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reader, Yos  +, writes (1 June 2006):
 If you want some inspiration you could try reading www.literotica.com. There are thousands of free stories written by site visitors about every (sexual) subject under the sun. The site says you have to be 18, so just pretend you haven't visited until your next birthday :)
Bear in mind that the site contains people putting their fantasies in writing, so much of it is highly unrealistic and not how 'real' sex is. But then that is one of the advantages of cybersex: if you want to describe having sex whilst orbiting the earth in a plastic bubble being followed by a flock of quacking space-ducks, you can!
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reader, camille  +, writes (1 June 2006):
 I'm not sure if you're saying you don't know what to say but really want to join in? Or if you feel uncomfortable about the whole thing. Personally I would say whether you are on the net or face to face, if you feel pressure to do something, don't do it. Don't be forced or cajouled into something you're not ready for. Without knowing more background details about if you've met, it's hard, but if you like the idea of having cybersex and feel safe, then maybe read some erotic novels to get some sexy tips. Or explain to him how you feel, he could guide you, but not if you don't want to. As you are in different countries I can see how it's impossible to have a physical relationship, but perhaps it shouldn't get so steamy online before you have done anything together. Then if/when you meet up with him, he may expect you to follow through with what you've written about and you still may not feel ready. Long distance relationships are hard enough, but if you have never met your boyfriend, maybe it's best to be on your own to work out if this is really the type of relationship you want? How can it work? What are your plans? You may find someone nearer to home who you can get to know slowly. .
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reader, smeedle +, writes (1 June 2006):
 If you are comfortable with this then go for it, if you are still a virgin then you may need to watch some explicit or educational DVD`s or read some books or just read teen mags, this will give you ideas.
Word of caution is that you dont know who else is seeing what you type and im sure he is alone but just be aware of this, and if you meet up for sex one day you may have made him think you know and are comfortable with more that you are ready for.
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