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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been dating my girlfriend for about two weeks now. But we've known each other for well over a year, just never got together until recently. Anyway, right before we got together, she informed me that she was meeting up with this girl she met off the internet who also happened to be gay as well. In fact, everyone who saw the pictures of her, including my girlfriend, laughed because of how much she resembled me, and how ironic it was. Also, at the time, she referred to it as a date. A couple of days later, we got together, and I expected that she wasn't planning on meeting this girl anymore seeing as how she was with me. Well, turns out she's still pushing to meet her anyway, claiming that she just wants to make friends seeing as how she recently moved to a new city and doesn't have a lot of friends. Am I justified in asking her not to meet this girl? Or is that unfair? I can't figure out if it's wrong of her to ask me to be okay with this, or if it's wrong of me to ask her not to do it.
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reader, waza2007  +, writes (27 April 2007):
hiya, first of all can i congradulate you on having the guts to be openly gay; i dont know about america but its hard here in the uk! i would personally let her go and see this girl - it may be that she idolises you so much that she choose this look-a-like girl to meet up with.i am bi-sexual - it doesnt mean that i my bf/gf wants to stop me from seeing ANYONE! and i am a firm believer that if this girlfreind of yours is a some-one you should be with - you should not be worrying about her seeing this girl or you should let her go and see what happens - if she comes back and nothing happened, she is someone you can trust; if she has sex or a realtionship with this girl behind your back or finishes you - good riddens because it was never going to work anyway!hope this helped Waza x
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