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writes:Dear all, Please help meThe thing is am falling for a wrong guy.Though he never directly told me anything everybody feels he likes me but the problem is his nature and my nature doesn't match and he is too dominating at present. We are just friends or just classmates. Its been three weeks since we have met, our examinations are going on and prior to this we had leave generally we are in same examination class but this time we are in different classes. In past also once we were in different classes, he used to come every day to see me though he showed he didn't come for me but now things have changed and I don't know, I am getting bothered. The thought that he has moved on disturbs me, I don't want to fall for him I know we don't have any future together.Please help me, how can I focus on my studies and just forget this guy please? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (26 April 2014):
 Lock yourself in your room, and play Roy Orbison's "It's Over" again and again until it sinks in......
Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2014): You may just have a crush on him; but you are a smart girl and know that he may not be the right kind of guy for you.
Don't worry, it will wear off. It takes a little time. You did get to like him; but it just might take a little more time to get used to knowing he is moving on. You know that is best.
A nicer guy will soon come along and take your mind off him.
You're very young, and nature helps us to get over things like this quickly.
Go have yourself some fun with your friends, and get your mind off boys for awhile. You may be spending too much time daydreaming about the same old things all the time. It's time to do something fun and spend time with your friends.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (26 April 2014):
I think this guy is all you know and at your age, being different can seem very attractive. "We want what we can't have". I would suggest to pray and form communication with other people and your parents as well. Look for life in places that you may have closed off.
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