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writes:Hi,I'll try and keep this as short as possible. I met a guy on new years eve through mutual friends and we seemed to be getting on really well. However he was texting his ex so I wasn't going to let it go any further than just chatting. A few weeks ago, one of our mutual friends told me this guy had cut off all contact with that ex and gave me the guy's mobile number. I added the guy on facebook and he accepted the request. I ended up sending a stupid text to the guy a couple weeks after this and did not get a response from him. I deleted his number from my phone a few days later. Our mutual friend knew I had texted him (I told him) so I asked that he doesn't mention it to the guy as I just wanted to forget about it.Anyway, tonight me and the guy I was interested in were both on facebook chat and I sent him a 'Hey name, hows u? Good day?' message and again did not get a response and I did not send him any more messages. I was also talking to other guys on facebook chat but this guy would not have known that. After I came off Facebook chat, I realised that this guy had deleted me from his Facebook list!Now I'm worried he thinka I'm some totally desperate nutter. I have not tried and will not try to add him on facebook again as he has made it very clear by doing these things that he is not 'interested' in me. I'm not so stupid that I can't see that. I thought I was just being friendly and he seems to have taken it all wrong.Now I almost feel like I have been dumped (!) and am feeling really worried and embarrassed about going to see our mutual friend again now that this has happened. What can I do to stop feeling like this and should I be worried about seeing our mutual friend again?
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