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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My husband found a female that he cheated on his ex-wife with on Facebook. They started chating a calling each other and their conversations were of a sexual nature. When I confronted him he called me a unhappy, complaining snoop. He says he loves me and he does not know why he was doing it exept for the excitment. He says he is sorry he hurt me but I am not sure that he is just not sorry he got caught.He feels that he does not have a problem but this is not the first time I have caught him talking exessivly to other females but the first time of it being in a sexual manner. Our sex life is and always has been very active so I know it can't be that. Can he really stop or am I just asking to much?
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Leave him.
He is a cheater and he is having sexual conversations with someone he cheated on his ex-wife with.
If you see a question and it says, "3 6 9 12 ... what is the next number? 15 or 20?"
Going by the pattern, it is 1 in a billion going to be 15.
You are doing the equivalent of assuming the next number is going to be 20.
Meaning, you are giving him the benefit of the doubt when you KNOW he has an established pattern. He is going to do it again.
Leave, don't spend another second holding your breath when deep down inside you know what kind of person he is.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 Because he says he loves you and is having sex with you, he should be allowed to have sexual conversations with other women and cheat with someone he cheated with before?...Um nope!!
Can he stop?...most likely not!
Are you asking too much????
He is laughing at you behind your back and making a fool out of you hun!!
Get rid of him!! and get busy making yourself happy!
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reader, Wild Thaing  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 Your husband is validating the claim "once a cheater, always a cheater". Sounds like history has repeated itself. What are you going to do about his cheating ways?
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reader, boo22 +, writes (19 July 2010):
 Hun, this sounds really quite bad and i'm sorry it's happening to you. If he's not doing it for sex then it must be cos he doesn't value your feelings at all and is just taking the piss out of you. Tell him it's got to stop or walk away!!!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (19 July 2010):
 He's behaving inappropriately. I think that you have a right to ask him to stop contacting her since he cheated on his last wife with her. Way too much history there to ignore. Having friends on FB is one thing, but it's an entirely different thing to be having sexual conversations with one, especially given the history.
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