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writes:I don't know why but I am having the hardest time leaving my husband of 28 years even though I know he is having an affair and has been for at least a year. My husband is disabled and can't work so he can't pay the mortgage, he won't agree to sell the house, and I can't pay mortgage here and pay rent somewhere else. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): I can see how you feel bad. Him being disable and all. But that doesn't give him the right to cheat on you. I would confront him and tell him you know about the affair and if it doesn't end you will leave. Because you don't deserve to be cheated on, no women does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): He is being unreasonable. Go ahead and move out. He probably doesn't think you are serious. Once he can't keep up the payments, he will either have to get someone to move in with him or agree to sell the house. The house might go into foreclosure. You may want to talk to a lawyer also. I believe some states have laws where you can force the other person to sell because of things like divorce.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): Atleast confront him and end the affair. If he won't then leave him and let him deal with his mess. If you want to work it out go to couples therapy.
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