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Husband has panties that aren't mine!

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Question - (9 July 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i found a jelly vagina on my husband jacket and some pair of panties and the panties are not mine i ask hem why he had that plus some blue pills too and he dint answer my question he toll me that i was making a big deal but i think that the panties are from some of the girls he use to date if not he is cheating on me wit all those girl what should i do plus he lakes to watch porn when i go to the store, doctor, or anywhere else and when i come home he is watching porn can someone help me.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (10 July 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntAre you talking one of those fake vaginas they sell in the sex shops? Basically a man's version of a dildo.

Blue pills? I believe roofies are white. Perhaps they're male enhancement pills. A pair of panties that could be another woman's or bought from the store.

Actually, my first guess is that he took a trip to the local sex shop for some aids to use while watching porn. Second guess is he's cheating on you. However, the evidence is circumstantial. Why have a fake vagina if you're getting the real McCoy? That's the item that doesn't fit with the rest.

So is the real problem his porn watching? Or is it you think he's cheating?

If it's the porn, then has he been like this since before you've been married? How's your sex life? What is your issue with the porn?

In my opinion, porn is porn..if he's doing it to the point of where it's an addiction affecting your sex life and marriage then he needs to seek proper mental counseling. Now if it's something he's always done from time to time, then watch it with him and use it as a little foreplay. Or put parental locks on the TV and internet.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2011):

There is too much evidence to suggest he is cheating for you to ignore. He isn't coming clean any time soon and he doesn't seem remorseful so I'd say it is time to start divorce proceedings.

I believe the blue pills are viagra.

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (9 July 2011):

Moo's Mum agony auntYep something is going on here for sure! There is no way there is an innocent explanation for these things. Kick him to the curb!

By the way what is a jelly vagina? I have never heard of this in my country??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2011):

He is not only cheating on you but also taking viagra to help him perform better

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A female reader, RedAthena United States +, writes (9 July 2011):

RedAthena agony auntHow long has it been since we wore that jacket? Since you have been married?

You can find out when those pills were last filled too. That would be interesting to know.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (9 July 2011):

Your husband's a cheat, pure and simple. There is simply no other excuse for the jelly and panties. He's a cheat. Whether you stay or not is up to you. Personally, I don't think I would.

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