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Huge crush on the guy who works in the same building but I don't think he even knows that I exist!

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Question - (20 September 2017) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 September 2017)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello, there is a guy that works in a same building with me and I have a huge crush on me. When ever I see him I feel Goosebumps and I smile alone like a crazy women. Problem is I haven't even said a word to him and probably he hasn't even notice my existence and that kills m. How do I get him to talk to me and have him as my own if possible?

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A male reader, Roboaxe United States +, writes (20 September 2017):

Roboaxe agony auntWorkplace romance is not recommended.

I tried one for awhile and it ended badly.

And the worst part is that you still have to see that person every single day of the week.

You're young as well, no need to pursue that kind of romance.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (20 September 2017):

N91 agony auntYou're asking for drama by pursuing a workplace romance.

What happens if things don't work out and you have to see each other everyday? I wouldn't recommend a workplace relationship to anybody, it's supposed to be a professional environment not a dating pool.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2017):

If he has made eye-contact; why hasn't he initiated conversation, or bothered to acknowledge you?

Get your crush under control. Single available heterosexual guys don't just pass-by a lady he finds interesting. If he doesn't notice your existence, it's probably because he's taken or married. Or, he doesn't look for dates too close to where he works.

Check his ring-finger! If this guy passes you day after day and doesn't even bother to say good morning or so much as boo; I think it's safe to say he's not interested.

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (20 September 2017):

Denizen agony auntCreate a reason for him to speak to you. Drop something and see if he will pick it up for you. Something corny like that. In the love game you can't be too obvious.

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