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writes:I am female,28...3 months living with 63 year old american guy,i am confused now because he is no longer treating me the same like before,it was clear before whats my future with him but now seems like i am hanging,i feel like not being love,i understand that he is not feeling well but not reason for taking me for granted,he even stays with his computer for long time rather than talking to me,he is totally different now,before i feel very important to him now i dont know what really going to happen,he is planning in going back to his country and he told me he will get me after a month or two.should i be worry he would just forget about me when he leaves?i love him.Does he really love me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi thanks 4 all who answered,i am open 2 all advice just hard 4 me to face it i mean i chose him bcoz i thought he alrdy done with that fling days of his life,i really cnt explain how we are now,i really cn feel that he change a lot ,he's not d same anymor,it hurts me a lot,i dnt know how i wil get through with this,i love him more than myself.the day he wil leave is very near.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (5 February 2012):
 EVERY 63 year old guy covets the idea of having a fling with a hot 29-year-old girl.... The idea of being able to get away by ".... going back to his country..." is just frosting on the cake....
Face it.... you've been a victim of a charmer... and you will likely wait a VERY LONG time for him to: "...get me after a month or two...."
Sorry....
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reader, Uncle_Unsparing +, writes (5 February 2012):
"Does he really love me?"
No, of course not. He just said that so he'd have a regular easy free lay while he was out of the country. Why would he need to send for you when he can use the same line on any dumb American chick your age he can pick up off the street once he returns to the USA?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi thank u 4 ur answer,cnt sleep.but sure helped me realize a thing,i wud want 2 tel him what i feel just afraid 2 know the truth.i wana believe him and trust him.because we had a good start 2 our relationship and i dnt want 2 waste it.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 February 2012):
 he's going home and then will send for you?
I'm not buying it sweetie... huge age gap... he's ailing, you are feeling unloved and unappreciated....
I would bet (and I hope I'm wrong) that he won't be sending for you....
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