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writes:Ok this is a kind of odd question...I met this guy in October of last year, and we exchanged numbers and texted alot over the months and met up a couple of times. He knows that I really like him. The night after I saw him for the first time on my own. I had a dream about him, he said to me 'I feel the same way about you' and then we kissed. I got a call from him on New Years eve saying happy new year and everything. I then saw him at a friends house, but he clearly wasn't interested in me. Which hurt but I realised that I had to get over him. But the thing is I dreamt about him a couple of nights ago. It was weird because we were acting like we were a couple, holding hands, kissing, having a really good time together. The really weird thing is that he was wearing my ex's rugby shirt.Now my ex and I had a decent break up after going out for nearly a year. The thing thats confusing me is why am I dreaming about a guy wearing his rugby shirt?!?!? I'm confused...and light that you could shed would be great! Thanks for reading :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah I do want to be with him alot but for reasons I'm not going to go into, I can't be with him, and anyway he's not interested...
No I haven't been with anyone since my ex and it's been nearly a year...
Oh well life goes on!
Thanks for all your help, especially BadAsh.
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reader, BadAsh6705  +, writes (22 January 2008):
 You are probably dreaming about this guy being into you because that is what you want so much. Have you been with anyone else since you and your ex split? You may be seeing his shirt on the new guy because you still have some feelings for him (not that you aren't over it, but it takes some time for those feelings to completely subside) or your sleeping mind may still associate your ex boyfriend with romantic feelings, kissing, etc. since you did it with him so much.
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reader, josien  +, writes (22 January 2008):
my dear sorry about that. you know some times dreams have the power to controll our daily living. i think you combine your thoghts with your expectations in this friend of yours so you keep dreaming about him in the image of some one you have ever loved(ur ex. this is just a thoght stop the thoght and life will go on. and i think you parted from your boyfriend when you still loved him so your trying to find some one to love you as he did but which is not it. wake up gal friend from dream land.
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