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How would a guy be able to tell if the girl has an orgasm?

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Question - (26 March 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 27 April 2008)
A female Singapore age 18-21, Blakforst writes:

What happens when a girl orgasms? Like, how would a guy be able to tell if the girl has an orgasm? Other than her telling him, because some girls just fake it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008):

you can know becouse her vagina become wider

and some thing come staight up to your penis like soft

tissue

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A male reader, DoubleM United States + , writes (27 March 2008):

DoubleM agony auntThere are clues - such as heavy breathing, vaginal contractions as mentioned if you can feel them, and some women's breast nipples become very pronounced and harden. A good telltale is gasping for breath, and many women seem to stiffen their body during orgasm, usually followed by a relaxation. Sounds they make are also a good indication, such as moaning, an increase in vocal sounds and vocal accompanied with rapid breathing. The flush is obvious but difficult to notice in the dark. I watch more for the body tension followed by a relaxed state - hard to fake if accompanied by a grabbing feeling by the vagina. Ultimately, just make good love to the woman and don't worry so much about it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008):

No way to tell for sure, guys have always wondered since the beginning of time. I know a few women who have never had an orgasm and trust me their husbands do not know this.

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A male reader, troubledtoomuch United States + , writes (26 March 2008):

troubledtoomuch agony auntJust a note: Not all women have strong contractions. Some women have weak pelvic floor muscles and it is sometimes hard to feel the contractions much. Of course, there is still the flushing, other muscle contractions and the greatly increased wetness and sometimes even squirting. If the pelvic floor muscles are week, Kegel exercises will help. Seeing the flushing is sometimes difficult, as it is usually dark when most people have sex. My wife has weak contractions, but her body gets very tense and she gets very wet and even rarely squirts. Another woman whom I dated many years ago could have probably cracked walnuts.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands + , writes (26 March 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntThere is also the sex flush, people can't blush on command.

One thing to remember, if the sex ain't good and you fake it, it ain't never going to get better.

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A female reader, baby duck United States +, writes (26 March 2008):

baby duck agony auntAside from the extra lubrication (cum)there are strong contraction that the guy will feel inside of her.

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A female reader, maid_Marian_vetbabe United Kingdom +, writes (26 March 2008):

maid_Marian_vetbabe agony auntWhen a girl orgasms, the inside of her vagina contracts rythmically and usually hr body will go really tense first and then relax totally. She will probably seem very very chilled out after, at least for a few minutes, and be breathing hard, and her heart will be racing.

I hope this helps! Once youve seen both, its easy to teell which ones are real and which arent, or so my guy friends tell me!

:-D

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