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writes:im an 18 year old gay male, recently i ended a posessive civil partnership (though not legally yet) and have been going out almost as soon as i'd finished with him, with another guy.I know the new guy likes me alot and hes the first guy who has ever been able to make me ejaculate, but he thinks that im on a rebound and just wants to be friends at this point, telling me to have fun with other people for a while. I want to know how can i turn this into a proper boyfriend (comitted) relationship?
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reader, aim  +, writes (19 November 2007):
 I like this guy. Haha.
You should take his advice and just be friends with him for a while. Give time for yourself to get over with your ex boyfriend and just casually hang out with this new guy. You'd eventually know within you that you REALLY are over your ex and it's not just a rebound and you're ready to have another fruitful relationship with this new guy.
Just take things slow. ü
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reader, helpfulguy7352  +, writes (18 November 2007):
If you are on the rebound,you do need to take more time. But that just makes him an even sweeter guy for keeping your well being in mind and telling you that.
So if you do really like him, ask him if he'll still be available when you're done taking time. If I were you,I'd be worried about losing the guy.
So,to sum it up in a paragraph. The ideal way to manage this would be to take time away from him, and if you go back to him after giving time to other guys then you've got something special. Talk to him about wether you might lose him by taking time away from him though.
Good luck man. :-)
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