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sionmaisley
writes:I have this weird problem, everytime I have a relationship with someone I become really into it, so much so that I miss them loads when I'm not with them and this usually drives them away. What can I do about this? Reply to this Question |
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (26 November 2007):
I also understand how you feel because i get depressed at times just thinking about my gal.Try harder to control those feelings.Sometimes what causes us men to feel that way is insecurity and wild imaginations.Keep yourself busy and hang out more with friends.I wonder if you can survive a LD affair like mine.Just do things to distract you thinking about her.I usuall talk to this female friend i recently mate and i've noticed that i don't feel depressed as i used to in the past.
All the best.
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reader, bigbenlondon +, writes (25 November 2007):
 Guess what I'm like this too at times. Keeping a sense of scale is really important with all the emotion involved it is really easy to go overboard far too quickly.When you aren't with them I think it is a good idea to not sit around thinking about it too much, keep yourself busy and try and keep your mind off of things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): Chill a bit more. Relax into a relationship. They should be about having fun, and having a good time - so don't make it too serious. It will be natural to want to see the person you love all the time - but try to repress that urge. Act calm. Give them time to get used to being around you the whole time and give them some space at the start.Don't worry - I'm sure you'll find the right person for you soon, who loves you exactly as you are. x x x
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reader, Dazzerg + ♥, writes (25 November 2007):
 I can be a bit like this so be assured that you are not alone. It tends to stem from an overly affectionate nature and also possibly insecurities gained earlier on in life. Do you find yourself feeling very insecure as well as this or not?? I would tend to echo what was said by love him in general, try and pace yourself and exert some control over your emotions but she is also right that its part of who you are and I would tend to feel that the right one for you will accept that about you or at least help you to a point when it becomes less of an issue. Good luck.
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reader, clh91 +, writes (25 November 2007):
 hey! yeah i know exactly how you feel.try not to let it overcome you so much that it takes control of you. coz it'll drive you insane if he hasn't already.try and be patient and not get too into the relationship too quickly.hope i helpedwb if you want to talk or any more help:) xxx
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reader, love-him +, writes (25 November 2007):
 Hi hon, that's just the way you are, i am like that as well.. You just haev to control yourself and not say i love you too early in the relationship, and make sure you are both right for each other to avoid upset later on in the relationship. I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me about anything :) x
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