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How to seduce my b/f

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Question - (1 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2009)
A female United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend's sex isn't boring, but..its not very exciting or eventful. We do it, and thats about it.

I kinda wanted to spice things up a bit.

I drove to the store and bought some sexy leopard print lingre, with some hot pink leopard print handcuffs.

[[by the way- he doesn't know any of this.]]

I want it to be a little surprise, next time we have a date. Next weekend is "movie night" at his house. So, i thought this would e agood time, considering movie night, usually means "sex night".

For the time being his grandmother is living at his house, b/c shes having a hard time with bills, and getting around the house etc.

So, its not like..i can walk out of the bathroom with hardly anything on. So...everything has to be in his room.

I kinda made a little plan on how i was going to do it, but i am open with any opinions, or..suggestions or whatever.

Maybe whenever he leaves the room, i slip on my lingre way, flip my hair, and get the handcuffs and be behind the door. So when he comes back in, i come from behind the door, and grab him, take off his shirt, and handcuff him and throw him on the bed....and you know the rest.

It might sound good in my head, but it can be a totally different story in person. So, if anyone can please help me figure out a way to be sexy, and give him a night he'll never forget..it will be SOO appreciated!

I just need a way for me to put it on, and be hiding before he comes in. B/c i feel kinda awkard if i just stand there.

Anyway! sugguestions please!

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A male reader, Djmclucas113 United States +, writes (1 May 2009):

Djmclucas113 agony auntYa trying to cuff him right away might not go over well if u don't know how he will react to it I probably would just kind of act sexy and just flirt around with the cuffs in ur hands to see if he would be interested in being cuffed or having u cuffed

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A male reader, iamthesupreamegod United States +, writes (1 May 2009):

iamthesupreamegod agony auntThe getting the sexy underwear on is easy. Put them on at home and wear them under your normal clothes.

As for the handcuffs: I think it would be better if when he leaves the room, get undressed to the undercolthes and then cuff yourself to the bed for when he comes back in and think of something sexy to say to get him into it. Give him complete control over it.

The idea of cuffing him could be risky especially if you don't know how they will react to it. You may know, concidering he is your boyfriend, but unless you have talked to him about such possibilities before, I would stay away from cuffing him until you find out how he respond.

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A male reader, jay12toes United States +, writes (1 May 2009):

jay12toes agony auntWell if you need him to leave the room you could leave something out in your car and ask him to go get it for you. That might give you enough time to get ready.

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