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stephytee87
writes:its over between me and my ex and thats me just realised it almost 2 months later. I think hes seeing someone else, altho he denies it but hes definetly moved on. Im only beginning to accept it now. I text him and he didn't reply, just saying we should have space and be friends when i was ready but he never replied. I think hes angry at me for calling him at work last nite questioning him about this new girl.My point is, should i leave it alone now? Is it best to give him space and time and then give him a text wen im over it? i would like to eventually be mates.Advice?
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reader, charl213 +, writes (2 April 2008):
 It's never easy getting over an ex, I hate doing it. But each day gets easier, and trust me, eventually you will come to the day where you realise he wasn't all that great. You have to let yourself get over him though, dont make it hard for yourself by letting everything remind you of him, make new memories, and keep living, dont sit in all day and think about it, thats sure to drive you crazy.
Leave it for now, and by the time you feel ready to text him, he would have probably already tried to get in touch with you. Meet new people, and when you're ready, send him a text, keep it short, make it light hearted, maybe a joke and ask him what hes doing next week.
and avoid questioning him about the new girls, its not worth knowing and only makes you look like you care.
You'll be fine X
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x + ♥, writes (1 April 2008):
 Give it a few days or weeks, just to let him cool off a bit, and then text him when you're sure you're completely over him and your feelings won't get in the way of your friendship. If you really would like to be friends with him then wait for it, and tell him. The best thing you can do is wait for just a little while. Not too long, but just enough time. Maybe two weeks or something?Wishing you the best.xx
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