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anonymous
writes:Me and my ex girlfriend dated for about 6 months. We've been broken up for about 3 weeks, everything has been good for the past three weeks but what should I do to get her back? She is 21 and I'm 19! Is it worth getting back together? What should I do and say to make her want me!?
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reader, Ann1056263 +, writes (20 February 2008):
 Are you sure you want to get back together with her? You say the three weeks apart have been good and you're not sure if she's worth it.I can't tell you how you feel nor do I mean to, but it doesn't seem like you love her. If you did, why would you want to play hard to get?It sounds like you just want her to want you. And if that's the case you should just move on and find someone else. Trying to get her back only prevents you from finding the person that's right for you.If you're still thinking about going the hard to get route, remember girls usually don't like guys who play games.Would you want someone to manipulate your feelings like that?Think about it. Best of luck.
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reader, jabey  +, writes (20 February 2008):
Right firstly it depends on who broke up with who, or was it a mutual decision ?
It interests me that you say is it worth getting her back Surely you are the only one who can answer that one. Do you really love her? do you miss her? was the reltionship a happy one ?
If you answer yes to these questions.Then yes it is worth getting her back.
Now if you eneded the realtionship, call her and simply ask her if she can meet with you, then tell her you miss her love her, and would love to try agaain.
Now if she ended the relationship, its a different story. hold back for a while longer, dont contact her, and dont speak to her unless she contacts you.
After a month, call her and chat casually then arange to meet up. Act cool and suss out where she is at, then slowly build up a friendship and ,maybe listen to why the relationship ended, show her your different if that is the case. Be confident, happy and secure.
Its hard to advise without the details of why the relationship ended. so perhaps if you wish for more advice fill in the gaps.
Good luck xxx
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