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How to give my boyfriend a good hand job??

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Question - (6 June 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2009)
A female Ireland age 18-21, anonymous writes:

hey im 14 and my boyfriend asked me for a handjob. i said i would think about it and i hav i want to give him one but i dont know how and i dont want to ask him how i should do it im just 2 shy to ask. so how do i give him a really really good handjib???? xoxo

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009):

Hi. I am 15, and I give my boyfriend an occasional handjob, but it's special. He knows I won't have sex with him because I am waiting until marriage, but that doesn't mean that I can't experience pleasure and give him pleasure. I've found that the back of the penis is very sensitive, and he likes it alot when I make little circles with my fingers all along the back. Also the area between the hipbones is sensitive, and when in doubt, go back to basics (stroking). My advice for actual sex is to make sure that you are not hesitant at all, and if for some reason I change my mind and I want to have sex with him, he will make me put on the condom so I can't say that I felt pressured. That's a surefire way to make sure that you are ready, if you can put on the condom yourself. Good luck.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009):

Hi,

To give your bf a lovely hand job, first, hold his penis with whole two your palms(hands), gently rub it up & down, kiss on the head of the penis, now you will notice it becoming bigger, stronger, thicker, longer, start rubbing it hard & fast, clutch it with your hands & rub, apply wet sulavia on your hands, and rub it up and down, hold the testicles below the penis, gently squeez them and dont stop rubbing him faster then you will witness him cumming out in full estacy.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (7 June 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntTo gRaa, you are 12 which means your hormones haven't even kicked in properly yet and although I respect your morals, I feel your advise isn't really justified in any way! And although you say you will "N E V E R" do any of those things I think you will find in the next 2-8 years you will, unless you are planning to go and live in a convent, in which case I don't think this is the site for you.

At 14 you do have urges and it's natural and as long as you do things that you and your partner both want and that you both understand how to stay safe, then that is fine.

Don't do anything you don't want to do and always ALWAYS use condoms even if it is just a handjob!

And never do anything you can't explain to a Paramedic!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009):

Ignore these weird people. 14 is never too young to experience pleasure and retro if it isnt "NORMAL" then im 14 why do i have oral sex and orgasms and sex itself? Iam sick and tired of adults telling kids they are too young for pleasure when they do so. Its just a hand job! I suppose next your going to tell us we are "too young" to masturbate. .

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009):

Take my advice and dont do it just because he wants you to. I lost my virginity at a young age just because my boyfriend wanted me to. and to this day I regret it. you should really think it through before you do that.

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A female reader, gRaa United Kingdom +, writes (7 June 2009):

gRaa agony auntsorry but im younger than youu by 2 years and I would *N E V E R* do anything like that.

Yeah sure, kissing, hugging, holding hands, things i would do maybe, but doing something that is way to old for me, i just completely avoid!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009):

If you're too shy to ask him to guide you, you're not ready to perform this act. Tell him you haven't done it before, and ask him to put his hand on yours and move your hand how he wants it done. It's really the only way to learn how to do it. Make sure to get some lube first too so he doesn't chafe. Also, the head is the most sensitive part. Many guys don't enjoy that being touched right before they cum (though you'll have to ask him). The basic motion just going up and down the head and shaft, squeezing a bit. He'll have to give you feedback on amounts of pressure. Also, remember. Just because he asked you to, doesn't mean you HAVE to do it. If you're not ready, don't do it. Make sure this is what you really want to do. Don't do it because you feel obligated.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009):

Your too young to be doing anything sexual!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009):

you are too young to even be thinking about sex! dont sell yourself short for a moment you may live to regret .sex is a special thing you need to be really ready for, and 14 is just a kid. wait awhile, ok?

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntYou are a 14 year old girl, you won't give a good hand job! Get him to put his hand on yours then he can guide you on what to do, and make sure he wears a condom!

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